Bonds

Today I am going to write about spiritual connections with other human beings. The only reason is because, like the last two posts, I have been thinking about this topic. Recently I have noticed that or feel as if one of my friends and I have a spiritual bond. Not like any other friend that I have had, this one felt different. I met him officially in the beginning of this year, my grade 11 year of high school, I can’t really explain it. I first saw him the first day of school and I was drawn to him. It’s kind of weird, for lack of a better explanation.  I now I think that is why I wanted to get to know him in grade 10.

            This feeling of being connected in a way confused me. Now if he was a girl it wouldn’t because I’m straight, but for a while I took this feeling as a crush.  In a way he is like my comfort zone, I feel safe with him. And I don’t think I mean in a lovey dovey way. Maybe he is my soul mate…maybe he is just meant to be my friend. I don’t know. All I know is that he is going to be in my life for a very long time.

            And it has come to my attention that is why I can’t stand his girlfriend, I really don’t know why he is interested in her. But as Barb said she is in his life for a reason, he needed to learn something. I don’t know, but I know that things happen for a reason.

            I decided that I was going to investigate this topic because it has been on my mind for a while. It’s weird to think that one of my best friends in high school may be the person that I am meant to be with, but he might not. Time will only tell.

            My friend Kendra also said that it was like his girlfriend had a competition going with me and I think it’s because I am his closest friend girl. Haha. I thought that she just didn’t like me and that’s why she said mean things in nice ways. It just turns out that, in my opinion, she is threatened by our relationship. Oh well.

I found this site and it said something that made sense to me about spiritual connections; “This means that both people are compatible, and that their inner spirits are harmonious with each other. Because of this, a kinship is started first, followed by deep inner emotional feelings for each other, all because the spirits are harmonious.” (http://www.awakening-intuition.com/SpiritualBonding.html)

“A friend is someone who knows all about you and still loves you.”- Elbert Hubbard